LIfe is full of different choices, make sure the person you are choosing over everyone else is also choosing you or you might learn the hard way.
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Yeah, you could say I lived through this "hard way". But the problem with the fiat world is that either you both have to be dumb enough, or you get to choose only between nothing and only bad options. And nothing is not always the better choice.
So dependent on the Karma you are born with, some suffering is unavoidable.