i have a friend who just had a pitbull dumped on her 2 days ago in baltimore
wants me to take him cos he experienced a lot of food insecurity so he is possessive & very aloof & also hasnt been neutered
basically saying: if you dont mind being eaten, it is pretty easy to get a dog for free who didnt ask for this & do right by them & hope they simply eat someone else not you nostr:note18s95euzae89r0wnp0lf5udk7jedvj2975aemf0xqe0r3n29yprcq0mchz7
i said no
cos i have to spend too much time at the hospital for what is still currently an undetermined amount of time
but i did appreciate the compliment immensely
(she already has a pitbull)
that she knew i would be a good place for him to go cos im not a fucking asshole so he probably wouldnt kill me unless, of course, he did. which would also be ok by me.
I watched a friend's pit who had a similar background. I thought he was going to kill me the first night I went over to feed him. He was fine until he saw me grab his dog food, then he freaked out. I went back over the nnxt day, covered in dog pheromone spray, and started throwing handfuls of dog treats through the door, with it open just enough for my hand to fit. After he realized I was going to give him food and not take his food, he was my best friend.
Sounds like a silly way to live to me. Get quality, invest time in it and have a happy life. Other people’s mistakes aren’t mine to fix.
what happens when you achieve your aims in terms of quality & time investment & your happy life
do you just set a new milestone for yourself?
& what happens when you reach that?
another one?
let me know what you've got as far as advice once all the achievements are exhausted & you are full up on any validation you could ever want or need
