Great post. For some though, this revelation comes later. Unfortunately for me, loosing one is what it took.
Alcohol is a poison that kept me from realizing it prior to our loss. Nigleria fouleri took him, not my alcohol use thank god.
Sobriety and loosing him has woken me up to focus on my wife and other two children. I know I will feel him again when my spirit moves on one day.
In the mean time, stay humble, stack sats, and love like no other!