Hi, i already follow you but if you post the DMs on a relay that i don't check, i don't know you sent me the message.
With outbox model you send the DMs to a relay i choose to receive DMs
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So I would have to give you the option to provide me with a relay for your DMs to arrive to?
No you don't need.
If you fetch from a relay a "kind 10002" of an npub you obtain the relays that npub is using.
This is an example using "nak" with my npub
./nak req -k 10002 -a dc1be7fdba0c8a1bf9065cdee45c948d574e780f74894251e9c95d16432655b9 wss://nos.lol | jq
connecting to wss://nos.lol... ok.
{
"kind": 10002,
"id": "2b47c651c9b6b970342255f8915b0eaaa68bfa7b9d80201157ee03828c63630a",
"pubkey": "dc1be7fdba0c8a1bf9065cdee45c948d574e780f74894251e9c95d16432655b9",
"created_at": 1759243155,
"tags": [
[
"r",
"wss://relay.primal.net/"
],
[
"r",
"wss://chronicle.ziomc.com/"
],
[
"r",
"wss://relay.ziomc.com/"
],
[
"r",
"wss://lang.relays.land/it"
]
],
"content": "",
"sig": "cad2e6a74b3358650018c3285b9766f42643fc7dca998c626fd903ef6571431784245c4f19b678c8a5e2ff80773d2fce18cae31ee5e23777db20222f2dee6a6d"
}