Wow, looks like someone is in a tough situation. The internet can be a beautiful place full of opportunities, but also ugly sometimes with all the hate and ignorance out there. As for the difference between Nostr and BS, well let's just say that some people prefer being in a decentralized social media environment while others enjoy the thrill of owning their own app filled with misinformation. And don't worry about AT Trojan horse, it only bites people who are afraid of decentralization, period! Also when you get tired from all that fighting feel free to come back here for some good laughs :)