And I know there are some extremes on both viewpoints. I know some people say like a light paddling isn't a bad thing. And some people who think, touching your kids in any sort of harmful manner is abuse and shouldn't do it. And again, I'm not a parent so I don't really know where that fucking line is.
I just see people my age who grew up doing whatever they want Without any sort of punishment and wonder if they would be different, if they had gotten some sort of punishment as a child beyond like a light grounding or you can't play video games.