nostr:npub1q8nhcxa8t9zfk06ggqwpwcr64znkxvnwt2wgzqdtga920g355p4qdfkct8 nostr:npub1kpwlxpzkxfmuxjmzc2wp3rf9vjg0sgydmlhsnrgqr3maf59h86qqdxxzz4 if the age gap is big, people are likely to be at different life stages. in my experience, you start figuring yourself out more as you hit your 30s.
nostr:npub1q8nhcxa8t9zfk06ggqwpwcr64znkxvnwt2wgzqdtga920g355p4qdfkct8 nostr:npub1kpwlxpzkxfmuxjmzc2wp3rf9vjg0sgydmlhsnrgqr3maf59h86qqdxxzz4 perhaps not so incidentally, that's what my upper age cutoff is currently set to. it got gradually lowered to that over time, based on what looked kissable to me.
the lower age cutoff is set to 30, but that's less about physical attraction and more that i start feeling they're a bit young for me.
Discussion
nostr:npub1q8nhcxa8t9zfk06ggqwpwcr64znkxvnwt2wgzqdtga920g355p4qdfkct8 nostr:npub1kpwlxpzkxfmuxjmzc2wp3rf9vjg0sgydmlhsnrgqr3maf59h86qqdxxzz4 women under 30 have started feeling more like "work in progress" to me over time. so i guess i want someone with a bit of life experience, but still young enough that i feel physical attraction to them.
i'm not sure how i will feel about women aged 45+ when i hit that age myself. my tastes have drifted over time, but what if they just settle where they are right now?
at that point, maybe it's too late for me.