It's not

It's on people who run social media platforms to not make them traps for people with enough of a spine to stand up to bullies

It's fucked up that we've had social media platforms for decades and none of them have fixed these issues, including nostr being here for years

As long as the platform is designed to let bullies spam the feed, the only correct response is to continue responding to them forcefully

Without better tools than spamming replies back, responding forcefully means spamming replies back

And it makes me extremely angry that I've had thousands of hours of my life wasted on this, while devs of platforms like reddit make money on the content I contribute, make money from users bullying me, use my suffering as a revenue source, while being part of a system that makes computers so unreliable and janky I can't fix it myself

I will continue standing up to these psychopaths

That includes the psychopaths that harass me

That includes the psychopaths that removed our "punch in the face" tool by ignoring shit like COVID and moving all social interaction to the internet while refusing to replace the face punch with other effective tools

I will not be one of the people whose fault this era is