I have a sleep number bed and I like to vary it night to night depending on how I feel. Sometimes super soft so I almost hit bottom and sometimes maxed out which is about like a tatami mat or slightly harder.
Discussion
When I bought mine they told me guys usually put it too firm. I’m slowly creeping up the scale, I think I’m over 50 rn.
When I bought mine they slowly turned it down while I laid on it and then told me the number when they saw me relax and said that was my number.
Then they said 100 always for "activities"
One of the major reasons I don't like excessively soft beds is because it makes "activities" a lot more cumbersome. 😂