Spot on. The girls aren’t seeking out masculine men for their games here, they’re seeking out doormats who they can manipulate.

And of course then the cognitive dissonance kicks in - they’re happy with the doting part being that which they sought out, but they’re unhappy with the lack of masculinity.

The one who was just engaged complains her fella is indecisive, physically weak, can’t build basic furniture, doesnt ravish her in bed etc., hence the blowups every few days.

They want rich alpha types who simultaneously act as simping beta types, and they want each side of that when it suits them and are constantly disappointed as a result.