If a pick and choose ability exists (in any software), I'm not aware if it, but also I am quite limited by my own lack of technical ability. I have asked on nostr for how to do that in the past, and got no answers, so I'm pretty confident its not a thing. I think your assessment is correct - Core is antithetical to the Bitcoin ethos.
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I would legitimately pay a dev to monitor #asknostr to answer in depth technical questions. I would bet more sats than that that a lot of other people would too.
Agreed. At the very least, that's the kind of thing that we need to be zapping.
i try sometimes but don’t know too much about
You could create a bot that would do this. Obviously the database would be rather large, but it seems like a better solution than having a dev on call 24/7.
There could be an option to speak to a qualified individual and you could pay that person per session or per question. Choosing the latter option would ping an established list of knowledgeable people, so it wouldn’t be up to just one person to monitor the hashtag.