Yeah, they don't integrate well with Nostr without lightning addresses.
If you are looking for a self-custody option with lightning address, I think nostr:npub1xnf02f60r9v0e5kty33a404dm79zr7z2eepyrk5gsq3m7pwvsz2sazlpr5 beta is the only one without a bit of technical know-how needed to set it up with a node implementation and your own domain.