I guess I read too much Freud these days... and he alerts us (directly and indirectly) to our total ambivalence (it's in this context even that Freud introduces this term initially) towards 'our fathers' - btw. his was 'weak' and his mother totaly overidealized and ominpresent - I just enjoy playing with possible outcomes for humanity and you and me - if our fathers were 'stronger' ... sorry, to long of a story (and I gotta get it written somewhere else now urgently first 🤣...)