My grandfather would take the train to a city when he was 6 yrs old that took 4 hours and he would sell milk there.

That was in 1929.

Sometimes he got to buy a banana there.

His favourite special drink was banana milk even when he was already a grandpa.

Yet

He was abusive towards women, that doesnt make him less of someone to at pulls on ones heart strings.

… grandpas are a tricky topic for alot of people.