yes, that is my experience too.

Something that i think would be really cool for jumble:

if there was pre-set write filters based on what relay list you are looking at, that you could define.

for example, i could be in my follows list and think of something i want to publish that goes everywhere, but then if i am looking through a smaller community, like a nip42 authd relay with just my close friends, id want my published note or reply to just write to that specific relay.

basically, id want a way for the client to either be smart and assume that for me, or give me otions to set that up for each relay listing. Rather than me remembering to update what relays im writing to in the moment. Make sense?