We must ruthlessly mock, i mean encourage, any FOSS project to stop using spyware platforms for their communities 
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I wish there was a good nostr discord replacement but there isn't.
Have you tried nostr:npub1zuuajd7u3sx8xu92yav9jwxpr839cs0kc3q6t56vd5u9q033xmhsk6c2uc project?
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this is why i'm building nip-79 nostr relay chat, the time has come, we are getting to the 3rd year of nostr and still we haven't got a good chat client for it, and it seems to only be because of weird, paranoid nonsense believed by many of the developers
I really like 0xchat
it wiped out my mute list, it was only because i had it stored in coracle android which was offline and i removed one from the list and it republished it... but 0xChat deleted my mute list, i can't forgive that, i'd had it happen before and the weeks of omg not this asshole again were not repeatable
I just tested, and it won’t wipe out the mute list. However, 0xChat encrypts the list. Could it be that some clients don’t support encrypted lists, which is why they can’t see it?
really, so, you make this bullshit up that fucks with other people's clients for fun do you?
you are a genius
also, what NIP has encrypted mute lists?
this is an extra feature, it should have an extra kind number, please cite the nip number
https://github.com/nostr-protocol/nips/blob/master/51.md
This is the standard NIP-51 approach; both encrypted and non-encrypted lists clients need to be supported :)