Yes, I meant that I wasn't imagining them as replacements. Regular gift wraps have their use cases, and ephemeral ones have different use cases, such as real-time secure ephemeral chat.
Regarding relay implementations, I think relays have incentives to respect the ephemeral range since it saves them storage. I've noticed that strfry typically takes 5-10 minutes to evict ephemeral events, while khatru, for example, simply relays them without storing them. This behavior is hardcoded and cannot be modified, which is not good.
How are you handling ephemerals in Orly?