nostr:npub1vm2yasykvnuu3uhu6w45wnwd6p3lyv2q3kn6k3j98jptg0dxl76q8xuh2l I tried gnu social and couldn't get full federation, so then I tried misskey, and I really like the desktop experience and milktea is decent. Since I host public servers I figured one federated attack surface was enough.
If I found a pleroma server that seemed interesting I'd join - or if misskey gets up to 1TB of storage, I might switch to something else.