Phoenix is non custodial. It doesn’t have a lightning address (to receive zaps) but it’s a great wallet for spending online. I actually keep more sats on that one since I hold my own keys. If you’re looking for a non custodial wallet that also has a lightning address for receiving zaps, you should check out nostr:npub1xnf02f60r9v0e5kty33a404dm79zr7z2eepyrk5gsq3m7pwvsz2sazlpr5

It’s slightly more advanced. I started using it exclusively on nostr and I’m very satisfied 🫡