It seems a lot of nostr adjacent apps have gone the route of creating a service that uses nostr. What we need are more tools to host your own content at your own domain that uses nostr. Instead of zap.stream and flare.pub we should have an app that the user can run and when hosting it, they can place their own content in their own webserver and the program handles nostr events for them. Sorry but if you're using zapp stream or uploading videos to flare.pub you are trusting those services to store your content. nostr will not protect you if the servers hosting your content goes dark. Put it on your own computer.