I have never experienced it but I am told social-media-and-dating-app induced simping is such an epidemic that now they only like you if you don’t like them (too much)? modern dating is bizarre.
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From a female perspective, it is because the simps are usually fake. In Hawaii (and probably other places) they could likely also be homeless. Cell phones are a scourge!
i think always-available connectedness is ruining human connection. we’re not meant to be always connected to each other. affection grows when we miss them over longer periods. If you always know what they’re doing, wheres the longing and mystery?
Reading more David Deida should snap modern beta man back into a turn on for women..🔥❤️🩹
I feel bad for both sides of the dating scene now a days.
Things where much simpler when you had to walk in the winter to go see your girl....
From what I have heard, it’s even worse. Mostly hookups, no dating.
Grateful I am married 25 years. The idea of dating in the current era is frightening.
13 years (not married) here… frightening indeed
Bro I didn’t touch a dating app until I moved to Denver and after about 2 weeks of use I decided there ain’t no way in hell this is gonna work lmao. A ton of girls had like checklists on what they wanted. That’s why I grew the mustache because a ton of girls said like “bonus points if you have a mustache” and now I can’t get rid of it
at this point if a girl says they want something i assume its a psyop. be yourself
I'm getting married in a few weeks. We met three years ago through a dating app (Bumble). Before we met, I had several other normal dates with normal women I met through apps. I thought the apps were great, but maybe I'm an outlier.
I see it as an opportunity to change and improve the online dating experience. I’ve never used any of those dating apps but this group of Nostr #devs appear to be innovative enough to create one I *might* join. Also, AI can be used to personalize the experience. Incorporate my AI buddy Dave or develop “Jenna” to be a virtual matchmaker. The virtual matchmaker can also make recommendations for date locations. Based on the users interests, a cooking class could be better than just going to dinner. A painting/pottery class might be of more interest than just an art museum.
Nostr is a blank slate that can be used to create the unthinkable. Nostr can also showcase how AI and technology should be used to enhance human connections rather than harm us. The power lies within us.
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