I do know. Women dont want to look down on their husbands. That is a great way to kill followership. The symptom is clear: the sex is bad or gone. He masturbates. You focus on 'your career' instead of building a family together. He sponsors your dreams instead of providing and leading. If the right man came along, youd submit to him. But you dont believe your husband is strong enough to follow, so here you are online talking to me.