Zaps often seem so random. And there are a few mega-zappers that completely skew the statistics. And someone who leaves and comes back, after a long hiatus, gets rained with zaps. Has nothing to do with the content of the note they posted.

I'm here so much, that people think of me as part of the infrastructure, so they take it for granted that I'd remain. I'm now the wife, not the new girlfriend, so nobody is flashing cash, anymore, cuz they figure I'm a permanent fixture. I'm like Nostr background noise, but I don't actually have a Nostr income, so I'll be going a bit radio-silent, soon, when I get my new job.