When I was in college (before victimology was a big deal like now), a black girl wrote an editorial complaining that she was mistreated because of her race. Her example was that someone on the bus grabbed their backpack, swung it onto their back, and it bumped her. She said it was because of her race. I can pretty much guarantee that it was an accident and the person responsible was so self-absorbed, they had no idea she was hit. I wouldn't have thought anything about it. Some people are oblivious. Some people are rude. Some people are both. It doesn't mean they are racists or personally attacking someone.

If you want to find a grievance, you can find one, but that doesn't make it real. I am so over the victimology culture. They need to grow up.