In my case, sometimes emotionally suffocating for me, sometimes there is an emotional deficit for her, as we Aquarian folks spend lots of time in our heads dreaming in the spaces in between, hoarding our emotional intensity. Communication is key, but I have never doubted that I am loved and cherished, she has never doubted my commitment to compassion irrespective of circumstance, it is important to open the shutters on the lantern in your soul as Scorpio needs more sunshine than we do. The intensity of a Scorpio in love is unparalleled in my experience.