If I am going to pay for a relay for the purpose of permanently and privately storing my data, what relay would you recommend? #asknostr
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Use an Umbrel server and install the personal nostr relay app. It does all the work for you for free.
Okay cool, thanks mate
> for the purpose of permanently and privately storing my data, ...
What you want is only possible with the relay that you control. If you are a technical person you can spin up your own relay.
I'm not. My brother is a reasonably experienced software developer. Do you think he would be able to do it?
Probably yes.
Here's a quick overview of relays.
Your brother will be able to find a way.
https://voltage.cloud/blog/nostr/the-essential-guide-to-nostr-relays/
Low cost/effort solution