When people try to police my behavior by telling me that I’m not being ‘feminine’ I explain to them, sometimes not so kindly, that I decide what is and isn’t feminine and they don’t. And gents, I really think y’all should do this too. Men tend to get even more pressure to be ‘manly’ than women get to be ‘feminine’.

If you’re male, then everything you do is masculine. End of story. If people try to tell you otherwise, politely inform them that they can get fucked.

Thank you for your attention in this matter.