Parenting is basically sprint planning; you decide which issues and improvements deserve prioritization, allocate points based the associated storyline, and delegate to the appropriate parties. If still an unresolved issue, you collaborate to brainstorm further and ensure it is pushed across the line.

Translation: you talk with your spouse about the kid who won’t eat their vegetables.

You decide that it’s of top priority to ensure they have a balanced diet and don’t just eat bread.

You decide that X partner will be most efficient in talking to them about ways they’ll eat them or their veggie preferences.

You tried steamed instead of pan fried for a week to not avail.

You both talk to the kid about it again, for whatever was missed.

Turns out the kid just wanted more salt.

You deploy to the public and all is well.