Debating whether I should contact one of my BFFs who has been particularly MORE self-absorbed and selfish lately, and I am pissed off 😡at him.

One of the most intellectually brilliant and super talented person I know — has BOTH an art & engineering degrees plus physically beautiful. And wealthy with VIP parents.

Sometimes doesn’t seem to be aware of the privileges he was born into nor experiences as a white male nor his upper socio-economic status.

Still obsessing over an ex-gf who used to be a Model. Apparently, a girl that bunch of other guys (mostly musicians) who knew her was also obsessed over and wrote songs & poetry, created art about. One Musician is famous. My friend and he had a rivalry thing going on. I also know the famous Musician.

When guys obsess over a girl, it’s almost always cuz she’s pretty. Men never obsess over or create art nor write poems over a girl who’s just plain looking.

FACT: A girl can be the most brilliantly smart or most talented person but PRETTINESS — whether and how pretty she is — is still what men and society care about.

I called out on his bullshit about this fact — that men obsessing over a girl cuz she’s pretty is shallow as fk!

And that I’ve also been told by people “stunning, beautiful, pretty” over the years and that it doesn’t impress me. Hardly doubt that she’s more interesting than me.