My sister in Christ, I don't think you understand how utterly desolate the lives of most men are. The world tells you every single day you don't matter and you should kill yourself or indulge in some destructive habits that will lead directly to your death. Nothing you do matters, you may as well not matter. It is complete isolation in ways you will never understand.

Simply having another human tell you they care is a treasure beyond measure and what keeps the 12 gauge mouthwash away, even if it is completely fake and something you paid for.

$20 is a pittance compared to what that would mean to you as a man.