Can you say why? I’m trying to understand what they do, what the i options are, and how to choose. Or is just more better and add them all?
Discussion
I checked on nostr.watch (website that shows relays) and then I filtered by paid. Nostr.wine is one of the fastest ones. It also has a filter (filter.nostr.wine). It helps bridge the gap between paid and free relays. You can read more about it here https://docs.nostr.wine/filter/readme
I mostly choose them by speed, to get a faster nostr experience. I hope this helps