I dont necessarily disagree, but your statement has some interesting built in presumptions.
Who is “we” and who is “their” and why are they different?
Since this “complication” you speak of will only be in the form of text, how does it affect you in any way that is different than nostr just growing? Why do you want the option to route some peoples kind1s and not others when what is in them doesn’t affect you at all?