Beautiful post @Quackman... congratulations to you! Makes me contemplate future legacy and the important things in life. I couldn't help but think of the following Harry Chapin classic, and how not to do it. IMO, if you have little kids, one of the best things you can do is sign them up for a local sport/club and then volunteer to coach/lead. They will only be young once... filling them with a solid foundation, fun memories, and good times is priceless.