> i made it here⦠but not because i was guided into it. i just sat alone and figured out what to do
Thatās the only way. No one can give you better advice than you can come up with yourself.
Even if you find and listen to a mentor, itās still on you to decide to follow the advice. Itās still on you to decide what makes a good mentor.
You canāt disclaim or escape your role in shaping your future. No one can.