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i could have really used career advice and mentoring from people with different backgrounds some 25 years ago.

i had such limited access to educated adults who could show me the way as a lonely teenager in my shitty little home town up north.

i look at kids growing up here in the Oslo region and all the opportunities they have that i never had up there, and i realise that the game was rigged against me from the very start.

i made it here and got into computer programming, but not because i was guided into it. i just sat alone and figured out what to do. i mean, i'll give myself a pat on the shoulder for managing to do that with zero formal qualifications, but i know i could've done better with some guidance and people to serve as door openers.

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jimbocoin šŸƒ 2y ago

> i made it here… but not because i was guided into it. i just sat alone and figured out what to do

That’s the only way. No one can give you better advice than you can come up with yourself.

Even if you find and listen to a mentor, it’s still on you to decide to follow the advice. It’s still on you to decide what makes a good mentor.

You can’t disclaim or escape your role in shaping your future. No one can.

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