nostr:npub19fywau9ff6pjmjek7k4kukgdcdf7w4chne57upj5s7y87gk7v27qx7n5nv you misunderstand what i'm trying to say here. which is that the ADHD makes it hard to pay attention at times, so you do seemingly careless things, even if you do care. and what i'm saying is that if my values agreed with that, my behaviour would make more sense to people. some people with ADHD appear to do that, perhaps as a coping mechanism.