I haven't picked my relays, but some messages never pop up, but then from the same person, they come through.

So, to answer your question, if they didn't see it, it's not a no.

The real question is, how persistent are you? If you really like this someone, will you leave it as a "note in a bottle", or will you reach out again, until you know their actual answer?

I hope you go for it, but it's up to you!

It's all about learning and sorting until you find one you really wanna be with, who also wants to be with you! 🙂