I'm using muun. I think I put in an invoice url (which expired) instead of my lightning url but I don't see where in the wallet to get anything other than an invoice
Discussion
Muun doesn't do LNURL. Use WalletofSatoshi instead. Be careful, it's a custodial wallet, though.
OK I set that up. Do you know if lightning nodes run OK on Pi's?
Pi4 but any other mini computer will do. I'm still unable to zap you, BTW.
Dang. Well I no longer see the error when I click on my own zap button so maybe my update just hasn't propagated to your relays.
I still don't see your zap button (nor your profile pic) but this could be due to relays or whatever.

Do you have recommended paid relays?
No matter if you use free or paid, more important is how fast they are, IMHO.
Have a look at this site: https://nostr.watch/relays/find