Choosing your relays is not an easy thing. Not too many to not stress my client and not too few so that I don’t miss out or lose connections.

It would be nice if I could group my subscriptions in the client (Damus). For example nostr:npub1m4ny6hjqzepn4rxknuq94c2gpqzr29ufkkw7ttcxyak7v43n6vvsajc2jl runs her own relay. Why ask other relays for her notes?

Also I really don’t know where my stuff is now. This note will not go to nostr:npub1pu3vqm4vzqpxsnhuc684dp2qaq6z69sf65yte4p39spcucv5lzmqswtfch's 140 chars relay for example.

It’s all a bit fuzzy. An own relay and an own client would solve that, right? Damn, that’s a lot of work.