If having friends is meant to bring anything good to the table, then I have yet to see it. Talking with strangers online and then just moving on with your day is much better (like we do here on Nostr) and stress free. The "you need connections" argument is also invalid for me since the people who helped me the most throughout life were those whom I have never exchanged more than a few phrases.
Discussion
What people expect from friendships have changed. At least for me.
Back in the day I'd talk and hang out with once in a blue moon and we'd pick up where we left off like nothing. I'm noticing now people have an expectation of you being available for a phone call at any time of most days, even when they have nothing to say.