arguably, crying in front of others is the strength, not the weakness.
per that argument, women are the stronger sex.
i think men and women are both strong though.
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nostr:npub1cuscsrz6efq99ptktk26x58v4yqy9y46ytp8xw4rjjwq0wlt6znst66789 It's been awhile since I watched this, as this was years ago when I was in my #StevenCrowder phase, so IDK how much of this I still agree with, but he made a video about how masculinity is more about being able to control your emotions:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FwAmUWzggm8
I think that masculinity is about being able to control the expression of your emotions while allowing yourself to acknowledge and feel them. This can mean what you're saying here, holding in tears until there is an appropriate setting to cry, but it can also mean allowing yourself to cry in public when it is appropriate to do so. Refusing to cry at a funeral isn't necessary a sign of masculinity.
This is also helpful for other emotions, such as anger, which unfortunately #StevenCrowder does not understand fully, apparently.