Can someone explain how private dm works on nostr
I think using just the 0xChat relay with the Amethyst client won't help. I think the amethyst anonymous button just helps encrypt your message so no one can read what you DM but anyone like nostr:nprofile1qqsd236myjzpu489zzr6pxcx0jtrn04pezjnqft23a2pykyuszvwr3qpzpmhxue69uhkummnw3ezumt0d5hs50pef4 can still see that you sent a DM. Try getting the 0xChat client that nostr:nprofile1qqs84k6jpsav0jmdeqjn2zxlpnsajaw6f8l0m2d4e9t8gjsyn53s4nspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuvrcvd5xzapwvdhk6qgdwaehxw309aukzcn49ekk2qghwaehxw309aex2mrp0yh8x6tpd4ehgu3wvdhk6pw0r8j works on.
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The different types of messaging (and their corresponding NIPs) are explained well on the nostr:npub1tm99pgz2lth724jeld6gzz6zv48zy6xp4n9xu5uqrwvx9km54qaqkkxn72 GitHub.
The anonymous button in Amethyst makes it a gift-wrapped DM if I’m not mistaken, which is more secure mainly because it doesn’t have metadata leakage.