Brah. Not ONE woman on nostr is here agreeing with you....

Just ask them what they want, tell them what you want. It's not that difficult.

The best ones, don't know what they want, opening the door to adventure and the other things you mentioned.

Women don't just want to be ravishly fucked.

They want THEIR needs to be heard and listened to.

This book shows how that isn't possible. Yin feminine starts in the head. Yang masculine is in the pelvis. It simply takes longer to awaken the yin.

Even the Bible says about sex "there is more pleasure in giving than in receiving".