You are a good example that one can have good points and still draw faulty conclusions.
BTC is transparent. You can tie/ID everything on it.
Monero is the fungible money you were looking for all the time. If you let go off your maxi ideology like so many before you, you'll able to see it as well.
Both Bitcoin and Monero are complimentary, but they achieve different objectives. Try to only use Bitcoin in your life. Go to the dark avenues a challenge your beliefs. If you haven't has an account or payment frozen it only tells me that you are not using it enough. Try to use it for everything and draw your fungibility conclusions from there.
In other words put yourself in the shoes that walked this path before you. Like many earliest Bitcoiners that found out on their way that Bitcoin is not enough - some of them the hard way.