I’d take the top one over the bottom any day and still call myself an autonomous free thinking human. It’s only not right if it’s someone else’s dream. If you want the big house and the cars then go live that reality and fuck those who say it’s fake.

Life’s purpose is to create the reality you want. Whatever that is.

I don’t want the farmhouse and the garden. Tried it, not for me. Rather hire a gardener and go drive my nice car.