it's really hard for me to share my opinions and even in this post I've written a lot and erased it all.

I really enjoy listening to others and when I really do that, there is usually no room for opinions. in these conversations, open questions arise, for which I myself do not have the answers and this enlightens me much more than an opinion that arises from a judgement.

our opinions can prevent us from connecting deeply to each other when we are trying to validate ourselves and our experiences in a conversation. but it can also be a start of a meaningful conversation and that's what I think I miss when I just wait for someone to say something instead of expressing myself.