actually, to be clear, perhaps in a different world or at least a situation that wasn't so tenuous, I would actually date a guy like Elon because he does have all the traits I loved about my ex, except he's older and he's a father already, so that attenuates all the fears I had of my ex ending up like my other child if we had one. sorry if that's mean, but it's what I was thinking at the time.

otherwise, I don't think all the drama that comes with his money is worth it, especially if the man himself isn't defending your honor and has no intentions to do so. it's not all binary, like, I never wanted anyone to be demonized, but that's how these people think so it's not really worth arguing about.