Was planning on Sparrow. all of this is very new to me, utxo managment is like collecting coin clippings until it needs to be melted then paying miner, to create recognized coins that can buy freedom. It's always cheaper to wait till the miners are in such demand.
I guess I could just create transactions and float them in the mempool till the fee drops. Is that kinda how forced closesures get stuck in the pool with high fees?