Narcissism is a terrible behavior to have and absolutely exhausting to deal with. Instead of dealing with the actual topic, narcissistic people will find excuses, shift blames, respond with personal attacks, and pick on you.

And before anybody starts pointing towards men and picking on them, women are just the same - I had 3 guy friends who went through divorces last year because their wives were cheating on them and blamed them for it.

And those who put up with narcissism for a long time will develop this extreme defense mechanism which is not good either and they need to allow themselves to heal.

But this morning I realized who is the biggest narcissist of them all - the abusive gov’ts.

They will never try to solve their problems - and blame everyone else - the opposition, the rich, the oil producers, the minorities etc etc etc. Their entire goal is to get you to cling on to them.

While in power, they rarely do what they promised, and will find other reasons to pass the blame. If you question them, there comes the personal attacks, good luck and bye bye.

I guess we all have to figure out how to heal from narcissist governments. Not just getting away from the power they hold on us, but also emotionally and mentally.

(started this morning reading local news. Why - i do not know)