When I go to my bookmarks. (I have all my communities privately bookmarked )

They all aren't loaded. So what I do is, I scroll allllll the way down, and for some reason that let's the relays 'catch up'

So to speak, and then they all start popping up

This is the reason why I have so many relays. Whatever you bookmarked was posted on who knows what relay, and if you don't have that relay it won't load