"convert the man to a sponsor"
Damn, that's a perfect way to put it.
"convert the man to a sponsor"
Damn, that's a perfect way to put it.
Ultimately it's about who domesticates who. When a man does it well, the woman is free to rediscover her childlike wonder. When a woman does it, she is reexposed to the chaos of the world while also being burdened as a motherlike figure to her weak man. No wonder she drifts. And no wonder she makes of him a sponsor; he wasted her precious and limited time.